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Domestic Violence

The moment anyone reads the phrase "domestic violence," an automated image is generated in the subconscious mind—an image of a man unabashedly using his masculine prowess on his better half, the delicate one in the couple. But though that is the reality for a large chunk of the population, it is only a restricted view. The broader aspect involves unscrupulous violence against the older generation. Every other day, on social networking sites and in newspapers circulated across the nation, I would come across many such horrendous incidents. But somehow, the impact never lingered—until an akin incident occurred with one of my close acquaintances. A routine talk with my almost 74-years-old mother took an unexpected turn the day before yesterday. I had dialed her number three to four times, but it was engaged. When she was finally available, she called me back. She said, “I was on call with your late father’s best friend’s widow.” My father and uncle were childhood friends who had...

Mathematics of Relationships

Mathematics of relationships has jostled, jerked, pissed and pushed, dragged and drowned human races. There's as such no absolute recipe that can help you bake or cook the signature dish of healthy relationships. Even the chef's special needs addition and subtraction. House speciality needs some wise multiplication and division. There's mostly an imbalance. At times salt is more, At another sugar is less. If by chance the chef manages to deal well with both the key ingredients, Still chances are he might fail, Since the customer's favorite might be just sour and umami. The garden of relationships is thus difficult to tend. Calculations of a seasoned gardener might also fail. A little less attention to details, A little more liberal hand at fertilizers and pesticides, Can contaminate soil, water and turf, And ultimately might head the dearly planned entire crop of his on the decay's trail. A beautiful blend of passion and patience is a seedsman's strongest tool, ...